Know that when we have sex, all the pleasure is not concentrated on the act itself but also on the preliminaries.
Pleasing your partner is one of the main objectives of sex. Routine and monotony are not among the most suitable ways to enjoy good sex as a couple.
It is necessary to innovate, to experiment, to be open to new positions, new concepts, new ways of having pleasure…
More sexual pleasure for men
First of all, you should know that the area that gives the most pleasure to men is not concentrated in one part of the body, namely the penis.
It is often thought that because of the erection, pleasure is found in the male sex organ. But there are many other pleasurable sensations that can be experienced in the male body.
It’s important to warm up the environment a bit by stimulating the areas that will allow for a good erection and a good level of excitement.
If we get this excitement, the sexual act will be all the more enjoyable.
The process, games and caresses
We can start with the lips and ears. The lips are the first area, where everything begins: a first passionate kiss, the perception of the rubbing of the tongue, saliva.
These elements bring the necessary excitement.
You can also try playing with the lips, with little nibbles, by passing the tongue through them, etc.
The ears are also a sensitive part, with different nerve endings of high receptivity. You can caress the back part with your fingers, pass your tongue over the lobe…
Also, whispering in the ear increases desire.
Different areas of the male body
There are other sensitive areas of the male body, such as the neck, which can be licked to arouse desire.
Next, it can be the chest. Although it may seem surprising to you, many men feel aroused when their chest is touched. The nipples can also be an erogenous zone for men.
On the penis, the glans is the area where many nerve endings are concentrated. It can be caressed with the tongue, form a ring with the hand and with the other caress the trunk etc.
The testicles are also an interesting area to give pleasure to the man.
When properly stimulated, they can produce great excitement.
The inner thighs are also a pleasure zone.
More sexual pleasure for women
Among the things that women emphasize most is that their partner cares about bringing them pleasure, even if the creativity is not very strong.
It is important that the partner is patient and resilient in giving pleasure. This is a very valued quality in the female world.
Kissing is very valued for any woman, especially during sex.
The clitoris and other erogenous zones
In addition to the clitoris, other female erogenous zones must be stimulated to obtain more pleasure.
Breasts and genitalia are not the only erogenous zones for women. Try the neck, arms, hands, back, crotch, thighs and feet, stomach etc.
The clitoris is the most important sexual organ. If it is not stimulated properly, the woman will not reach orgasm.
The clitoris is very sensitive and many women cannot stand direct stimulation unless they have already reached a high level of excitement.
In order to caress it correctly, you must first work on the areas surrounding it, and then progressively get closer to it as the excitement increases.
Preparing for coitus, with imagination
The man must be patient for coitus and it is necessary to take the necessary time to stimulate the various erogenous zones of the woman. Thus, one will excite and lubricate correctly, to prepare for the penetration.
The imagination must permeate the sexual act, and make it something unique, for a good quality of sexual relations and more pleasure.
Among the elements that can be used to “season” sexual relations are aromatic candles, fruits, ice cubes, Jacuzzis and foam baths, massages, sex toys, mirrors, disguises, etc.
In positions where the woman is on top, the stimulation of the clitoris is facilitated, and this makes it easier to reach orgasm.
Oral sex and pleasure
Although not all women enjoy oral sex, it is a very exciting option. It is best to talk about it with your partner.
It is important to know that because of the sensitivity of the clitoris, delicacy is the key to pleasure for women.